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Stress is an unavoidable aspect of life, influencing us in numerous ways. For decades, it's been portrayed as a precursor to various health conditions, from the common cold to cardiovascular diseases. However, emerging research suggests that our perception of stress may influence our well-being as much as the stress itself.
Consider this groundbreaking study by Health Psychology involving 30,000 adults tracked over eight years. Participants were asked about their stress levels and beliefs regarding the health effects of stress. The findings were revealing: those who perceived stress as harmful faced a 43% increased risk of mortality. This perception could be responsible for an estimated 20,000 deaths per year in the United States alone, making it the 15th most significant cause of death.
Yet, individuals experiencing high-stress levels but viewing it as non-threatening had the lowest mortality risk. Remarkably, participants who experienced a lot of stress but did not view it as harmful had the lowest risk of dying, even lower than those with relatively little stress.
During a stress test, participants who viewed stress as helpful experienced less stress, anxiety, and more confidence. Furthermore, viewing stress as helpful led to healthier cardiovascular responses, with participants' blood vessels staying relaxed.
Understanding the physiological responses to stress is crucial in explaining its impact on health. When we encounter stressors, our bodies initiate a flood of hormonal responses, including releasing cortisol, adrenaline, and norepinephrine. These hormones prepare us for 'fight or flight' by increasing heart rate, blood pressure, and energy levels. While these responses are adaptive in the short term, chronic exposure to stress can lead to detrimental health effects.
Take, for example, the damaging effects of prolonged cortisol elevation. This can disrupt bodily functions, including metabolism, immune response, and cardiovascular health. It can contribute to conditions like atherosclerosis, where plaque builds up in the arteries, increasing the risk of heart attacks and strokes. Additionally, stress can wreak havoc on our digestive system, leading to issues like irritable bowel syndrome and acid reflux. Moreover, stress can interfere with appetite regulation, promoting unhealthy eating habits and weight gain, particularly around the waistline. This type of visceral fat increases the risk of diseases like heart disease and insulin resistance. These examples illustrate the urgent need to manage stress for better physical health.
Moreover, chronic stress can take a toll on our mental and emotional well-being, leading to symptoms such as anxiety, depression, and burnout. It can impair cognitive function, disrupt sleep patterns, and exacerbate health conditions. Over time, these cumulative effects can significantly impact our overall quality of life.
However, the story of stress is not all negative. Interestingly, oxytocin, released during stress, acts as a natural anti-inflammatory and helps the cardiovascular system by keeping blood vessels relaxed and aiding heart cell regeneration.
The groundbreaking findings from earlier suggest that our beliefs about stress can profoundly influence its effects on our health. By reframing stress as a natural and potentially beneficial aspect of the human experience, we can empower ourselves to navigate life's challenges with greater resilience and well-being. This positive perspective on stress management can lead to significant improvements in our overall health and vitality.
There are many effective techniques for managing stress and improving our stress response. Mindfulness practices like meditation and deep breathing can help us stay calm and centred when facing challenges. Regular exercise is a powerful stress reliever and promotes overall physical and mental well-being. Additionally, building strong social connections and engaging in activities we enjoy can buffer the adverse effects of stress.
It's also important to acknowledge that people respond to stress differently. Some individuals are genetically predisposed to be more reactive to stress, while others may have developed better coping mechanisms. Understanding your stress triggers and responses is crucial for developing personalized stress management strategies.
In doing so, we can cultivate a healthier relationship with stress and pave the way toward optimal health and vitality. By re-framing our perception of stress, employing effective stress management techniques, and understanding our individual responses, we can navigate life's challenges with greater resilience and well-being.
From personal experience, I've learned that chronic stress isn't just a nuisance—it infiltrates every aspect of your life, clouding judgment, deteriorating health, and dampening enthusiasm for life. However, my journey through The Thrive Programme by Rob Kelly marked a pivotal change. This program opened my eyes to effective emotion management techniques that have profoundly transformed my life.
Before engaging with the programme, daily stressors felt overwhelming, as if each day was a battle against my own reactions. Through The Thrive Programme, I discovered the power of reshaping my thoughts and attitudes so I no longer create stress. This shift in perception didn't just reduce my stress; it enhanced my overall resilience, allowing me to engage with life more fully and positively. My stress came from having a high desire for control, while simultaneously believing that I wasn't able to control my life.
Now, I handle stressful situations with a calm and composed approach, recognising that I have the tools to manage my emotions effectively. This transformation has not only improved my personal well-being but has also positively impacted my relationships and professional life. By mastering stress, I've unlocked a more fun, energetic version of myself—ready to take on life's challenges without fear.
Want more? check out my essential checklist, "How to Rethink Stress in 3 Simple Steps," today, and take charge of your health and vitality! Pop me a message in the chat box with your info and I'll send it to you.
Sources and Further Reading
●Keller A, Litzelman K, Wisk LE, Maddox T, Cheng ER, Creswell PD, Witt WP. Does the perception that stress affects health matter? The association with health and mortality. Health Psychol. 2012 Sep;31(5):677-84. doi: 10.1037/a0026743. Epub 2011 Dec 26. PMID: 22201278; PMCID: PMC3374921. — https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22201278/
●Jamieson JP, Nock MK, Mendes WB. Mind over matter: reappraising arousal improves cardiovascular and cognitive responses to stress. J Exp Psychol Gen. 2012 Aug;141(3):417-22. doi: 10.1037/a0025719. Epub 2011 Sep 26. PMID: 21942377; PMCID: PMC3410434. — https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3410434/
●Poulin MJ, Brown SL, Dillard AJ, Smith DM. Giving to others and the association between stress and mortality. Am J Public Health. 2013 Sep;103(9):1649-55. doi: 10.2105/AJPH.2012.300876. Epub 2013 Jan 17. PMID: 23327269; PMCID: PMC3780662. — https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3780662/
●The Upside of Stress: Why Stress Is Good for You, and How to Get Good at It - Book by Kelly McGonigal, Health psychologist
●Yau YH, Potenza MN. Stress and eating behaviors. Minerva Endocrinol. 2013 Sep;38(3):255-67. PMID: 24126546; PMCID: PMC4214609.
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